dating does NOT mean sex

[something2do (deleted)]

everyone seems to think dating and --- are the same thing on here. but really am i suppose to believe that just because some girl sends me a message she wants to get me in bed

there really is a reason that dating comes before ---

maybe --- and intimacy are 2 totaly different things
and why is it that when a woman is over a size 12 or does not have exactly a 34 C chest she is only good for a one night ride ??
just sayin

[naila4170]

`I guess nowadays there are some sort of underlying pressures - to sleep with someone, to be the perfect size etc.
I have a very dear friend of mine - yes, sometimes we do sleep together, but tat is NOT always on the agenda. He is far to considerate of me/women and lots of times we simnd we met simply CHAT.
Yes he is a driver but I was also a driver and we met thru work.
But as i say he is FAR to respectful of me.
We met up again a few nights ago and although I knew he would have slept with me if the circumstances allowed, he had FAR too much respect for my feelings to do nothing more than give me a much-needed FRIEND hug.
So I do understand how you feel and yes there are other like-minded folk out there!
Hugs
Na'ila xxx

[naila4170]

`spelling correction!!
Tat = THAT
we simnd we simnd met = lots of times we simply met and CHAT
Sorry - I was typing to fast and my nails hit wrong keys
Na'ila xxx

[justjerry (deleted)]

`here is a thought, every man , woman , and child on this earth has likes, dislikes , fears , quirks , prejudices ,and opinions. and they are all different , changing from person to person . so if you want to know get to know someone intamately, why not burn up the phone lines for a while b4 meeting so you will each know , or at least have a good place to start to begin to love one another.
notice i said love one another NOT ---- one another!
that is suppose to come later.

[countrygirl2665]

`I seem to always find the guys who are lazy lying and want sex?Are there any old fashioned men who want a serious relationship,committment.

[abhchelms]

`Country girl, I'm an old fashion guy. I just don't want to have a serious committed relationship right now have been a widower less than a year. Not sure if I'll ever want another serious committed relationship. But there are some of us left on earth.

[scorpnet]

`Im a youngling commited to old values. I would much rather have a wonderful lady in my life that I can chat with on a daily basis, who makes me smile from day to day, rather than have random --- whenever I wanted to.

Sex with no intimicy is not fun for me, Just getting my d--- wet just dont do it. I have to have the love and commitment and passion from a wonderful woman